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王春霞:和谐家庭人人夸 点点爱心暖四邻

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王春霞

人物简介:王春霞,女,1965年3月出生,孝老爱亲类好人,南谯区龙蟠街道龙蟠南苑社区居民。

事迹简介:王春霞一家6口人四世同堂,家庭和睦,本着“百善孝为先,家和万事兴”的家风家训培育后代,王春霞一直悉心照顾年迈婆婆,和婆婆共同生活的34年从未有过争吵,和儿媳妇许晓丽更是相处和睦,鼓励儿子王坤当兵入伍报效国家,小夫妻孝敬老人,教导儿子。王春霞一家四代传承着优良家风,用自己的事迹弘扬着中华民族传统美德、传播着社会主义文明正能量,汇聚成“向善尽孝”的良好家风,像“能量棒”一样给社区更多家庭注入文明力量。

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王春霞和丈夫王少杰结婚34年以来,一直是个贤惠的媳妇,孝顺公婆,关爱晚辈。白天上班工作,晚上回家她包揽家务,为公公婆婆做好晚饭,岁岁年年从未和婆婆分开。不,准确的说她们曾分开7天!婆婆夏文娟心疼媳妇,要求和媳妇分开吃饭、生活,为媳妇减轻负担。在婆婆的一再劝说下,王春霞答应了与婆婆“分家”,但是这种“分家”只持续了7天,王春霞由于不放心公公婆婆单独居住,哭着来到公婆家,对婆婆说:“妈,我实在不放心你们单独生活,我不怕辛苦,我只有和你们在一起才能安心!”最终婆婆拗不过王春霞的坚持,一家人一直在一起生活到现在。

坊间总流传着婆媳是天敌、远香近臭这类人际关系,各种婆媳大战的故事更是层出不穷。但是,王春霞和婆婆共同生活的34年却从未有过争吵,在他们和和美美度过的这34年里有的只有对彼此的关心和扶持,和儿媳妇许晓丽更是相处和睦,她总说要像婆婆对待她一样的对待自己的儿媳妇。

如今王春霞已经退休了,但是她并未停下忙碌的身影。退休后的她既要照顾公公婆婆还要照顾年幼的孙子。为了照顾好一大家的生活起居,王春霞每天早早起床,送孙子上幼儿园。孙子上学后,王春霞就骑着自己的小三轮车接上婆婆,开始她们的“二人时光”。买菜是她们每天必不可少的项目,菜场里,王春霞拉着婆婆慢慢的走过每一个摊位,为婆婆和一大家子挑选喜欢吃的菜,这是她们快乐的时光!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                   

这样的生活平平淡淡,却是王春霞所喜欢的,只要家人平安生活,就是美好的。然而,天有不测风云,身体硬朗的婆婆被一阵寒潮打败。2019年春节后,婆婆夏文娟病倒了,病来如山倒,这次婆婆病的很严重,医院下达病危通知,老人住进了重症监护室。婆婆在重症监护室期间不允许家属进病房看护,但是王春霞每天还是在病房门前守着,希望婆婆早日能从里面出来。当老人从重症监护室转入普通病房后,王春霞更是衣不解带的照顾婆婆,每天除了回家为婆婆准备饭菜,其他时间都陪着婆婆。她不怕累、不嫌脏,只要老人弄脏了立马换,换下来之后立马洗,洗了又守在取暖器旁烘干。老人天天干干净净,一点异味都没有。医院的旁人都问婆婆,这是你女儿吧?婆婆总是骄傲地回答,这是我前世修的好媳妇,比女儿还亲。王春霞的公公一辈子不多言语,从不指使晚辈做这做那。王春霞对他们的悉心照料他看在眼里,平时生活不给晚辈增加负担。2019年11月王春霞的公公没有受到任何痛苦,寿满天年、与世长辞。王春霞对“孝顺”有着自己独特的理解:孝顺不仅仅是让老人吃好穿好,还要给予老人更多的精神关怀,让老人气顺,心情好比什么都重要。作为媳妇她只用自己真心去做、真心付出。

王春霞的丈夫王少杰目前在小区物业做电工,工作的时候他服务的是业主,8小时之外他却是左邻右舍的“义务水电工”,谁家的电灯不亮了,谁家里的水管堵了,大家总会不约而同地想到“王师傅”,而王师傅总是第一时间帮助解决,当邻居表示感谢时,他却总笑嘻嘻说:大家找我帮忙都是信任我,我本来不就是业主的服务员嘛!

在这个四世同堂的大家庭中,王春霞和丈夫王少杰以实际行动带动家人一起向善尽孝,深深的影响着下一代人,儿子和儿媳虽然工作繁忙,但忙完工作两人就会投入分担家庭的责任之中,他们会在教育引导儿子方面要求严格:不准吃别人家的东西,不准捡东摸西,对人有礼貌……儿媳许晓丽更是抽空在家替婆婆王春霞分担家务,给奶奶买爱吃的食物,陪奶奶和父母聊天,每逢传统节日、纪念日许晓丽总不忘给奶奶、公婆添置新衣新物,用一份份有爱礼物传递着她的孝心,在许晓丽的心里觉得自己非常幸运的嫁到一个家庭氛围这么好的家庭;儿子王坤退伍后保持着军人吃苦耐劳的精神品质选择自己创业,只要有时间就会带着父母、奶奶一起出去转转,他认为家庭才是孩子最好的学校,父母是孩子最好的老师,更是言传身教的告诉儿子如何孝顺长辈、尊敬他人。在这个家里没有因为隔代亲,在孩子教育问题上产生护短争执,相反却因为相互尊重理解,让王春霞的孙子在有爱的家庭氛围中茁壮成长。

 这个家庭不仅有传统美德、优秀品质,用“向善尽孝”的良好家风像“能量棒”一样,给社区更多家庭注入文明力量,也赢得了群众的广泛赞誉。

责任编辑:谢世炜
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